Calling Out an Unsolvable Problem

and moving it on!


While you're working on being kinder to yourself, let's also have a conversation on the things that can hold you back from that. Today I am here to share with you that the stories you tell yourself as a woman can enhance your sense of worth and beauty.

The stories you tell yourself as a woman can also knock you down and steal your joy.

It is not by chance that you experience certain problems showing up in different guises and situations.

It's strategy.

Unsolvable problems reason for being.


It's a strategy to protect yourself from being heard and seen for the amazing woman that you truly are. Unconsciously setting yourself up to fail and keep your feminine safe from harm.

It is possible that you have been protecting aspects of your feminine for years.

It's 'normal' to be judged or overlooked.

You have evidence that people let you down.

It's normal to be dismissed or unheard.


Is it - the whole truth?

Could it be as possible that your beliefs predict your experience?


Truer is: You're intelligence

You're creative

You're intuitive

You're lovable

You're strong

and if you pause for a moment, realise something holds you back from believing all this about you.


How to Recognise an Unsolvable Problem

Remember an unsolvable problem is a strategy built on a belief that parts of you have to been protected. It's only role is to remain unsolvable.


There are no guide-posts or goals to reach to 'solve the problem'. Once triggered, it runs automatically, as if it has a life of it's own.


One other thing, an unsolvable problem has to have a person to focus upon. This person has wronged you in some way (big or small) and you feel the impact of it.

This goes straight to your heart, your feminine centre. You feel vulnerable. The unsolvable problem keeps you in fight, flight or freeze mode.


After awhile (sometimes weeks, months, years), you realise that you've lost your confidence in yourself.


Now, you don't know how to stop thinking about this 'thing' that happened with that person. You're stuck and unhappy.


How do you let it go?


Unsolvable problem emotional states


You feel hurt, stressed, disappointed or angry.

It’s sounds like a complaint about them or you..

You withdraw love and/or attention from them

Your worse fear becomes real (not loved, not heard, not valued).

You are disempowered.